You can create the right conditions for something, but that does not mean that reality is in the mood to implement the plan. Time can only be influenced to a certain extent. Without patience, life is definitely more difficult. However, if you recognise the circumstances and realise that it is not yet time for something, you will also find facts that you could not see before, which may even make you reconsider. Often we tend to rush into things, mostly out of fear of losing control of a situation, without thinking about how to proceed if the plan does not turn out as desired. It often doesn’t hurt to think about what will happen if a situation gets out of control, because if you don’t think about it, you leave your goal oriented work to the unknown.
Since the view of reality consists partly of one’s own thoughts, one can also change this view through one’s own will over a longer period of time. Through changed interests, new bases of experience arise, which in turn offer new perspectives. This sounds utopian at first, but it becomes more understandable when you think about people who get into situations where they have to choose between different views in order to get forward.
If everyone could do everything, there might be less individualism. We live in a time when many people express their own convictions far too often through external facts than through internal values. And individualism arises from one’s own convictions, not from external values. The fact is that nature is infatuated with individualism. Individualism is everywhere. The abstruse is that theoretically nothing is equivalent to another thing anyway. So we are chasing a property, which is anchored in ourselves by nature.
If you love your life, you should act accordingly. Otherwise, life will respond to you accordingly. Life consists of many facets, and depending on which facets we expose ourselves to, they will affect us accordingly. For example acquaintances or personal interests. It is impossible to perform an action in life without that action affecting yourself. Reality simply consists of too many properties which we cannot understand. If we put ourselves in the situation of trying to understand what we simply cannot understand by our own actions, then we can only fail.
If reality would consist of nothing but shortcuts, it could not exist. Because if it would be so, nobody would have any more the necessary understanding to understand reality. Life has needed billions of years to be as we can perceive it today. If it would be the sense of the life to trick itself continuously, it could not not exist in the long run. Reality is simply like a woven net, which is not gladly tricked. By self-generated advantages discontent arises gladly, and discontent is advantageous for nobody.
Dreams are often constructs of the unattainable. Through fantasy, a future can be imagined, which, as long as it is created in harmony with one’s own thoughts, can also be implemented in reality. This in turn creates new possibilities, ideas and views. Dreams bring change, both positive and negative. They are indeed a driving force of reality. The irony is that it is impossible to stop them, because even in sleep we deal with matters that we can not cope with alone due to lack of experience from our everyday life. Time knows no standstill, and in all of us there is a part of what we can perceive as time.
Could time be seen as a kind of substance that holds the components of reality together? Time cannot be grasped directly. But we can perceive it through the continuous evolution of reality. Life arises from within itself and materials in general change. Apparently, time is somehow anchored in all aspects of reality that we can conceive of. Even matters which we cannot understand yet, because we lack the foundation for it, can be guessed under circumstances with the right experience. And even if not, time allows, through small fragments, or components of it, to conclude something much larger, which is hidden behind the hunch.
Dreams and wishes are like a drive of one’s own reality. Through them, possibilities can be imagined that would otherwise remain in the shadows. However, one should be careful that one’s own ideas are not nourished by illusions, because thereby one will always go into one’s own misfortune. On the other hand, if you think about your life path with the necessary knowledge, you can only benefit from it. In the end, “life” or “reality” always tries to move forward in its own way. Those who oppose it cannot expect to have an easier time in life than others.
If you move in the same circle for too long, you will inevitably suffer a kind of whiplash at some point. We humans are living beings who tend to experience new things in order to constantly bring ourselves forward and to be able to grow further through what we have experienced. If we constantly expose ourselves to the same, we unintentionally build up our own little cage over time, and without understanding it, it becomes more and more difficult to get out of it by falling into our own indifference.