In life, you can’t concentrate on other people’s concerns and try to realise yourself at the same time. Life around us is constantly reacting to our interactions with it, generating new situations, perspectives and experiences. As soon as one begins to use these values to advance the interests of other people, it will be difficult for oneself to generate a corresponding advantage, because one has, so to speak, used up the experiences for others through one’s own way of thinking, which, however, is not directed towards oneself. This makes it possible to strengthen the people around you, but you do not necessarily advance yourself through this, because everyone should be aware that you are always only a part of the life of other people, and that your own views, justified by your own personality, will always deviate from the opinions of other people over time. Through this, differences arise which can end in confrontations if one is not able to accept them.