We humans tend to forget our own problems just to distract ourselves accordingly. Unfortunately, we tend to forget that our own problems have memories attached to them, which can also be brought up by matters that are apparently not related to the repressed ones. The tragedy is that as long as we don’t try to face up to our issues, new connections are constantly being created subconsciously, because we may have already understood for ourselves that we still have to deal with something in the future. For those who are unable to muster enough willpower to grow out of themselves, it would not hurt to try to come closer to their own worries from time to time instead of continuing to suppress them.
Loneliness is something that should not be underestimated in life. Loneliness is not the same as isolation. If you find yourself in a situation where you do not feel comfortable due to external circumstances, you should try to do something about it so that you do not sink further into yourself. However, loneliness can also arise when one pursues one’s own interests in order to develop oneself further and to advance one’s own path in life. This can enable people to sort themselves out according to their own ideas in order to become inwardly in harmony with themselves, but only as long as there is no unease about the situation.
Disappointments are something you can’t completely get rid of in life. One is confronted again and again with facts that do not correspond to one’s own views. This brings with it risks, because unfortunately not everything in life can be influenced. So you have to learn to accept that, also due to your own actions, you will face circumstances that you have to accept in order to move forward. Those who suppress these characteristics and peculiarities of life will continue to encounter negative aspects through constant confrontations with them instead of recognising that life can also continue to bring forth positive aspects in various angles, which may not be recognisable at first glance.